Reasons
to have a Wedding Planner
By
Lisa Nelson
of
Elegant Event Design
September 21, 2009
In my last blog post, I spoke about the importance of the
"day of" coordinator to your wedding planning team. Now, I
want to talk about the benefits of hiring a planner - not
necessarily to plan every single detail of your wedding -
but at the very least, to give you advice and guidance
throughout the entire planning process. The only way I know
to tell you about the benefits of having a planner, is to
tell you the value I bring to my own couples.
I have the ability to make magical things happen with just
one phone call or email - like a super hero! It’s pretty
funny that some people will not respond to a bride for a
week, but will respond to me right away. I often wonder why
that is - since the bride is their actual client. I think
it’s probably because I bring more repeat business. Whether
it be good or bad - it’s true.
It’s totally not my style to push people around - however,
when someone doesn’t respond to one of my brides...they
know it. Plus, if people want my business, than they have
to show me how they will go above and beyond for my
couples.
I have no alliances to anyone, with the exception of the
two people that hire me - the bride and groom. It’s my job
to get you what you want. I had my wedding years ago. It
was wonderful, but it’s over. It’s not my job to plan my
wedding, but to take your vision and make it a reality. We
are here to advocate for you. We negotiate with vendors,
whether they are our suggestion or yours. We help to smooth
things over with your family and friends.
A few of my couples have asked me to talk to vendors when
they are having a difficult time getting their points
across. They ask me intervene.
One advantage of having a planner throughout the entire
process is that you are able to take advantage of their
hard-earned networking. A good planner will have many
connections within the community - which allows you access
to the best vendors in the area. If the planner is
well-respected in the community, the vendors will want to
go above and beyond to impress you and your family -
thereby impressing the planner which helps ensure repeat
business.
At one of my recent weddings, the bride and groom
contracted a videographer and opted for associate coverage
(no assistant). On the day of the wedding, the owner showed
up with an assistant. Not bad! Above and beyond!
Experience is one of the most important aspects. A good
planner will have years of experience. Having done umpteen
more weddings than the bride and groom - they know the
ropes and know how to avoid the pitfalls of wedding
planning. The wedding planner will ensure that your process
is smooth and stress free. They will make sure all the
nuances of wedding planning are taken care of with
professionalism.
Additionally, I totally believe that time is money. A
planner will save you time and stress which will be worth
their weight in gold.